Saturday, November 8, 2008

Stressful Relationships: Untie it! Sever it! by all means!

I wanted a funny title but a clean one and this is the closest statement that I could think of. Bear with me as I try to make this as humane as possible.

We filipinos have sort of green metaphors that could have a very good use in our daily lives!
If your in a stressful relationship, you most likely need this:

"Wag magpatali ng bayag!" or better yet "Wag magpahawak ng bayag!" Rephrased, "Wag magpasakal!"

Whatever it is, go for the kill! Have the killer instinct! If you smell blood, hit right were it hurts! What is important is that you make yourself free from an unhealthy relationship that is causing you to:
1.) Sin.
2.) Stressed in any form.
3.) Manipulated.
4.) You can't be yourself.
5.) Your partner is self-centered.

etc, etc, etc.

He will change? She will change? --this doesn't work my dear! Love yourself first, not until you are selfish, before you can love anyone back. You should be overflowing with love before you can settle for that very 'yes' in marriage.

Why am I writing this? Because in my multiply site, I can see a lot of people brokenhearted.
Have I experienced this? Yes, I did 4 years ago a brokenheart, a few months ago a vengeful heart. Angry driven heart is not good, forgiving is everything. I am not righteous, I also had a difficult time forgiving. Well, don't carry an extra luggage by being bitter and unforgiving. Laugh at it, pray about it, joke with it..it works!

How do you do the killer break-up?! Do it properly, but if need be, santong paspasan na..and run forrest run!

Now, take care of your heart.

-Jay, the photographer. (feeling masyado, wahahaha)

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